Songstress and makeup artiste, Evaalordiah has taken out time to write
to a girl who called her “lord of the rings” because she hasn’t
married, over a year after getting engaged.
Her posts reads: “How
can you, with all humanness in you say “This guy has no Shame, since
2015 he proposed and no wedding, Is she Lord of the Rings?” I read that
comment from @princessnwaroh and felt deeply insulted. That was a weak attempt at comedy if she was trying to be funny.
It is my ring.
If a wedding happens, it would be my wedding.
Have you wondered if the girl in question is ready for Marriage? So because I am engaged I must marry?
It
is my engagement, it is only a promise of loyalty between two people.
If I decide I am going to hold the Record for longest engagement ever,
I’d hold it. How does that have anything to do with shame for any man?
For my man?
Last night, I learned how the words people use with
us can influence us to several different types of actions. That hateful
comment of hers made me type back to her “Shut Your face before you make
yourself look ugly online. Ain’t cute for a cute girl like you.” Am I
proud of myself when I see that comment next to my name? No, not really.
Tit for tat never makes the love go round. But at the time of my
writing that, I just really wanted to shut her face. *sigh*
We
have spent many years degrading and berating our Women for not marrying
early, then the woman gets engaged and you chew the man for not marrying
her sharp sharp.
How is this supposed to end?
I was a girl just
yesterday. I am learning to become a woman. And I have the most
supportive human being in King Caesar holding my hand as I learn these
ropes.
Now that’s outta the way, I just wanna say, “I want to
have kids, I wish I had one at 19. I want to have a family as beautiful
and full of Live as the one my Parents have created for us. I want to
marry my best friend when I do finally accept the time. Until then, I
WILL PROTECT MY POWER TO CHOOSE FOR MYSELF WHEN I AM READY TO GET
MARRIED. And if I don’t get married, that’s still me exercising my right
to choose.
Oh and just an offside, he proposed in 2016 and I still cannot believe he did!”