A preacher identified a Wesley Adi has advised people to stop dating because it is a scam and a waste of time.
Given reasons, Adi stated that men move very fast when they finally find the woman they want to marry, which leaves no room for dating.
He shared: “Dating is really a scam.
It’s either he wants to marry you or not. You ever seen how fast a man acts when they find what they’re looking for? Women take a bit longer to decide. If a man is stalling it’s either he’s not that into you or he’s trying to compromise.
The whole “getting to know each other” narrative is also a sham.
You never really get to know anybody enough to commit your life to them. People develop new emotions/triggers/reactions overtime. That’s why couples who were together 20+yrs divorce all the time.
Love is a choice.
Stop wasting peoples time!”