Why you must learn to cope with your ‘Ogbanje and papi water lover’, Actress Eriata Ese tells Lagos ladies planning to end their relationships

Ese Eriata, a former Big Brother Naija contestant, has shared relationship tips with Lagos ladies on her social media platform.

The reality star, stressed that good men are extremely rare, with only a few good ones on the street.

She then advised that if you are dating any guy in Lagos, you should hang on to him, whether Ogbanje or Papi Water, and manage him rather than looking out for another man, because men outside are not genuine these days.

She wrote:

Incase u are planning to leave ur relationship and you live in Lagos; l’ll advise you manage the ogbanje and papi water u are dating, anything u meet outside what u already have is a scarecrow

But you can try ur luck; the industry don cast but there are 4% good ones. All the best.

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Kemi filani news recalls that an ex-Big Brother Naija Housemate, Eriata Ese bemoaned some of the challenges of being a woman.

The reality show star who is also a model and an actress says she is really tired of being hardworking and on that note, wouldn’t blame those who find themselves dating or marrying for the money.

I’m really tired of being hardworking. I’ve always thought that the more money you have, the more relaxed you should be. But I think that’s lie. Because the more you earn, the more you want. At this point, I can’t even blame those who marry or date for financial support,” she lamented on social media.

Ms Ese had in a previous post hinted that although she has never been married but she’s obviously geared up not to let her parents decide who she ends up with.

Eriata Ese via her verified Instagram platform also warns that anybody who ends up allowing his or her parents chose their spouses might end up regretting that decision.

Eriata Ese wrote: “The biggest mistakes you can ever make in your life is letting your parents decide who you should end up with.
How parents always think they know it all because they feel they have there makes me wonder if they realize they are using their clock to set our time. All they want is the best for you and what will favour the family. But they neglect the part where they have to be sure if they what they want for you is what you want for yourself.”