If you’ve got your hopes pinned on finding your Mr. Right on a dating site
you might be disappointed–or at least taught a lesson in patience. No
matter which site you prefer, you’ll find there’s a lot of dating “spam”
to sift through. Well, just before you get to know him more or fall in love…check out for these factors first!
Ensure that he is not a:
Little liar: Guys that lie about their life, work or stats
need to be passed over. If you uncover one lie, (like he’s 6 foot tall
but turns out he’s only 5) chances are you’ll discover more. Think of
lies as a red flag.
Strange stalker: If he’s pinging your inbox every time you log
on or following you around the web, you could have a virtual stalker on
your hands. Stalking is no joke and should be taken seriously. Report
any weird behavior to your dating site provider.
Photo troller: Believe it or not, some guys enroll on dating
sites just to show off their pictures. Unfortunately, not pictures you’d
want to see. If a modern day flasher sends you pics
of his “junk” or asks for pictures of yours, run the other way.
Avatar dater: Newbies may not post a picture right away but if
he’s been online for more than a week he needs a photo. There’s no
reason he’d use an avatar as his fallback avatar unless he’s got
something to hide. Keep an eye on the guy who refuses to post a picture.
Nasty emailer: Dirty talk isn’t cool; especially if it’s
uninvited or unwanted. If he treats you like an online booty call, ditch
him. He’s not going to respect you if you finally get to meet.