So after Tchidi Chikere kinda washed her dirty linen in public yester-evening (HERE), Sophia has responded via a press statement below:
Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is that the
best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange words with you
still because there is nothing you say or write about me that will shake
me because those that put their trust in God, He never fails them.
Why
are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and
justify
what you did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and
it’s hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I
give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting
me and my family?
You said I
used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used juju to hold you, let
God who sees everything judge me and you.
You bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it? Like seriously, are they not
your kids? Whose responsibility is that? And who is disputing that with
you? You said since you married me that I have not given you no love, no
affection etc but you forgot the interview you granted to Punch newspaper in
2011 saying that I am the best thing that have happened to you.
You said I
never had time for you? When you are always filming in the east and I won’t see you
in months. I played the role of father and mother to the kids…and I
laughed the more when I saw where you wrote that I didn’t feed you for 5
days.. Is this all in desperation to justify yourself? Wow!!
You said
marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and granting
interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon interviews since 2012..
Have I said anything against you? But I won’t say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can tarnish my
image by putting up this childish and immature behavior.
Even if you say that I am a
prostitute tomorrow
or a thief, people who know the truth know the truth and God knows
everything and sees the heart and he will pay everybody back according
to our deeds. So am not shaking!!
I will never say anything against you
to gain favour from people! No you can’t hide pregnancy. I gave you my
life for
12 years, gave you 3 lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say
to me then, I was a good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you
and never cheated on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things
just to make my marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and
covered my eyes to so many things.
I remember all the stories I heard about your escapades with other
women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you because marriage is for
better or worse and when you started your affair with Nuella in 2010,
what did you say to me when I confronted you?
I stayed, endured and prayed every
night. Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first time
you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me. Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people
that my marriage is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia
Tchidi Chikere till date.
Have you not done enough to me? You are married now and still I wish you
and
your new wife well. Why can’t you leave me alone to face my children and
fill up the vacuum this has created in their lives? You say such evil
things against their mother and they are hearing it from their
schoolmates. Their schoolmates are taking about it and asking them
questions everyday and yet your not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet
because of them, yet you have been talking and tarnishing my image since
2012? Yet I kept mute. I have not and will never say anything bad
against you. Vengeance is of the Lord, unless he is not on the throne.
You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want
to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for
years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to
see in London and I ask you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to
London 2 or 3 times yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody
knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London
and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there
just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best
friend.
We started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our
marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All
these years I have had women as
best friends and they all betrayed me, and I decided to have a guy as my
best
friend. We go everywhere together and he assists me in shopping and
buying things for my shop etc I can’t deny him. He is my friend. People
that know me very well will tell you that I love
taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy posted it on
his Facebook page and some people copied it and started posting it
online. I
have also kept mute about it and I would have still keep mute if not
that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish my name.
But is well. My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked
me to respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful
mother and that they know and they are seeing everything and won’t say
anything till they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three
lovely boys that I live for, that am blessed with.
I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my kids
with God’s grace and help. I wish him the best in his new marriage.I
bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them well. This will
be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain to paint me
black.. I
will not respond again.
Thank you