‘She wants me to call her at least three times a day’ – NYSC Member laments

Here is a sorry story of a serving corps member in Ondo State whose girlfriend decided to call it quit for flimsy reason. If you were in his shoes what will you do or if you were to advice him, what will you say?

Here’s the story
“I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student. In terms of financial needs, she is self sufficient.
But i don’t really understand her. I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon.
Most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day, and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn’t reduce my love for her, I don’t really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn’t call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can’t she can let go.
She sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue?.”

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