brilliant and determined youth that moved out of the country in the 70s in search of greener pastures. He chose India. India became his second home for the
next three decades, until last Saturday.
a merchant of textiles, dealing in all things clothing and textiles.
Okika visited Nigeria occasionally. As the years rolled by, he would
visit home to see his immediate family on special holidays, his annual
vacation or when he felt he wanted to be with “my family”. The family
comprises his late parents and siblings.
marginalised by our rogue leaders through the years, that’s why most of
us ran away. But it’s still our nation and we must always return to
invest in it, create opportunities for others with our investments.
Nigeria is investors’ haven,” he once said during a facebook chat few
years ago. Hence he frequented Nigeria within the past decades to invest
in an unstable economy.
his regular visits to Nigeria, Okika met a charming girl next door. Her
name is Adaeze. Few months after they met, they got married.
marriage to a beautiful home girl sparked reasons to spend more time on
each visit to Nigeria. The new couple was blessed with amazing two
daughters. Life was happening so fast and fascinating for the young
family. Okika would sneak into the country and stayed several months,
spending time with his family in Abuja.
husband. You could see how much he cherished and loved his young
family”. Friends and family sources said he was also considering a
permanent return to Nigeria as life had blessed him with an awesome
and took his family to India to spend the holidays with him. Meanwhile,
his eldest brother, the first sibling in his family had died in Lagos.
The body of his eldest brother was moved to a mortuary close to their
hometown of Onicha Ugbo. The family had planned funeral in January.
flabbergasted in India. They had stunning moments with their father and
husband. Okika shared these proud, profound and enriching moments with
his family vacationing in India on his daily facebook posts. He was a
happy man, surrounded by the most beautiful treasure on earth, his gift
from God: his wife and children, in his second country, India, a country
he adopted many years ago.
the vacation in January to attend the funeral of Okika’s eldest brother
in Onicha Ugbo mid last month. But he stayed behind in India to attend
to urgent business and planned to join them later. The morning of the
burial, Ogbuefi Donatus Diei, Okika’s immediate elder brother got a
phone call from India.
mortuary to bring home the body of my elder brother when I received a
phone call from Okika’s friend in India. He told me he had been trying
to call me the previous night. He said Okika called him and asked him to
urgently come to his home because he was having a severe chest pain.
The friend lived about one hour from Okika. He drove to his apartment
after the distress call. When he got there, he banged at the door
several times. There was no answer. He then looked around the building,
found the landlord and a forced entry to Okika’s apartment was
initiated. He was found dead by the door.
The police came and his body was moved to the hospital where an autopsy
confirmed he died of cardiac arrest. I am still stunned. I didn’t know
what and how to tell my family that I lost my younger brother the day we
were preparing to bury our elder brother. I composed my pains and
allowed the burial of our elder brother to be completed before I finally
broke the news to his young wife. Life, my brother. This Life…”
was returned from India. His family prepares to bury a younger brother
that died the night of the wake keep of their eldest brother. His young
distraught wife is still in shock and traumatised. She summed up her
pains in her facebook picture caption of their last picture together,
thus:” So this is our last outing together?”