Speaking with Punch, Mercy Aigbe
has revealed the extent of the injuries she sustained during the last
violent attack from her husband, Lanre Gentry, which of course drew the
media attention. She further revealed how she offered to take him to church for help several times but whenever they get to the church, he shies away from entering.
The actress has also disclosed that the case is currently being handled by the appropriate authorities.
“The case is no longer between my husband and I. It is now between
the Office of Public Defenders, Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs
and my husband. The officer is the one handling the case,” she said.
See some exceprts from her interview with punch below:
On why she chose to speak up:
“I cannot be washing my dirty linen in public and that is why I do
not want to go into details of my marriage. It is not in my place to
send him to jail. I only reported to the appropriate authorities and I
just need him to show remorse for what he has done to me. He does not
know the gravity of what he has done to me, the pains that I feel right
now and the trauma I have gone through. I am still in pains and I am
bleeding internally because I am still coughing out blood. Instead of
him to be remorseful, he was busy going online to say all sorts of
things about me and concocting lies. He has been fabricating stories to
taint my image because he knows I am the one with a reputation at stake.
I intentionally did not say anything even though I have proof of
everything I have to say. Instead of my husband to show some sense of
responsibility and own up to what he did, he was busy dragging my name
in the mud.”
Why she stayed in the violent relationship:
“I endured all the things that I went through in his hands because of
my children and also because of the fact that people look up to me as a
role model. I have been through a lot and I pray and fast a lot so that
things would go on smoothly. I have been praying and enduring a lot but
this last time, the beating was brutal and he almost killed me.”
On allegations that she was promiscuous:
“Before I got married, there was no scandal about me being
promiscuous, no one could say that I was sleeping around; so why would I
now do such as a married woman? If I were that promiscuous like he
claims, how come no journalist has ever reported such stories about me? I
have been working so hard to build my brand and now he wants to rubbish
it.”
On the last violent attack that broke the dam:
“The problem with him is that he cannot control his anger and I have
advised him on several occasions to see a therapist or enroll in anger
management class to learn how to control his temper but he refused. He
gets violent whenever he is angry and that is his problem. There is no
way a couple would not fight but it does not always have to lead to
physical violence. On that fateful day, he hit my head on the wall just
because I found out that he was having an affair with someone very close
to me and we had an argument. He came to beat me at my tailor’s place.
He even beat my make-up artiste and broke her hand. It was from that
place that I was rushed to the hospital very late that night. When he
was beating me, he was acting as if he was possessed. Ever since he had
been beating me, he had never beaten me to this extent. It was as if he
had made up his mind to kill me or blind me so that my career would end.
I don’t know why he is doing all this. I have offered to take him to
church but whenever we get there, he would refuse to enter. I tried all
my best. If only he went for therapy, all this would not have happened
and I don’t have to stay with him till he kills me. Imagine if I had
died that day, I wonder what kind of cover up story he would have
released to the public.”
On what she wants now:
“I am fighting for my life because if I die there would be no image
to protect. I just want him to sign an undertaking that nothing would
happen to me because a man who is capable of sending thugs to the house
is capable of anything. Someone who can set me up and lie that I have
mental illness can do anything. He should sign the undertaking and we
should go our different ways. If not, I would leave the case to the
appropriate agency and the law would take its full course.”
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