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    If you are above 40yrs old, then you have every business reading this | CharlyBoy writes on Menopause

    By Tireni AdebayoJuly 31, 2016
    Men-O-Pause.
    If
    you are above 40yrs old, then you have every business reading this. If
    not however, you still need to go ahead and read because your own time
    dey come.

    I
    mostly talk about the experiences I have been through, to talk to me
    and some times to heal me or some of the people I counsel. I share
    things I have learnt, so others can pick any positives that may help
    them in their journey through life.
    Na so.
    The
    stage I am at now and what am going through, is what I have discussed
    with so many men including my father-in-law in the past 30yrs. I never
    thought or even imagined I would one day be wearing the same shoes
    myself.
    Some
    men right now are experiencing symptoms that include fatigue, serious
    mood swings, depression and wait for it….sexual problems; like not
    being as desirous of your spouse sexually as you have been in the past.
    Like noticing things you didn’t use to notice in the past in your house
    hold. Like being irritable and short fused or the feeling of being alone
    even when you’re surrounded by family.
    Oyinbo people get name for am, dem dey call am Men-O-Pause.
    When
    a woman is moody, it’s hormones. When a man is moody, it’s work related
    stress, money problems, or just one of those days, right?
    Maybe not!
    An
    increasing amount of evidence points to an aging-related hormonal
    change in men that corresponds to the hormonal change in women known as
    menopause. Some call it “male menopause” which some believe is not
    entirely accurate but still gets the point across.
    Much the same way women’s estrogen levels drop after a certain age, men’s testosterone levels decrease with age.
    Testosterone
    is also known as androgen, and many doctors prefer the term
    “andropause” for this male condition or mid-life crisis, but all na the
    same pausing. 
    Anything wey pause, dey on hold.
    So
    for many husbands, their sex life with their spouse is on hold. For
    some, this has been on hold for weeks, months and even years. Wahala dey
    o.
    According
    to my research, testosterone decreases very gradually, in the area of 1
    percent per year starting around age 35, don’t take my word for it, go
    ask your doctor or go read it up. So Na him be say my own don decrease
    by 30%? Kai!!!! See life.
    Some
    of the symptoms are remarkably similar to those experienced by women in
    menopause, including moodiness, fatigue, thinking too much, depression,
    decreased sex drive.  Hummm, my brothers, old age no fit hide sha, no matter the charlyboy in us.
    So how do you know if your symptoms are related to Mid-life crisis/Menopause or to some other condition?
    All I can tell you is to take a trip to the doctor.
    My guy, this life funny o. See me, see menopause. Tufiakwa. I reject it in Jesus Name!
    Now
    if you are the wife, there are a few things you can do to try and help
    get your husband back to the way he used to be before this sudden turn
    of events.
    First, understand what you’re dealing with, both of you should see a doctor together.
    It
    is not always correct for wives to allege that their husbands are not
    getting their sex games on due to escapades with a mistress. For some
    wives, they say fuck it, and find themselves a handy man.
    Meanwhile,
    this is one of those times in a man’s life when his wife “should be”
    very sensitive and go further to research on the topic especially in
    these days of Internet.
    Wives must help out by making extra effort not only to be sexy but to be the gentle aggressor in this time of need.
    There are treatments for these conditions so partners must be open to talk about it.
    Wives,
    what you never want to do is sit there and do nothing cause that will
    surely become the death of sex in your relationship.
    But if you’re already getting your groove on somewhere else, never mind.
    Most
    men may have problem with going to see a doctor and actually dealing
    with their problems, so the wife may have to find a way around that but,
    rest assured that seeking help will be more than worth it in order that
    both of you begin to feel jiggy again and better controlling the mood
    swings and other symptoms.
    Na so I know reach o, Men…Ohhhh…Pause!!!
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