Singer Tamar Braxton has finally given an insight as to what led to the
end of her marriage with estranged husband, Vincent Herbert.
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness
&Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has
NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you
don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you
don’t now..even when you did.?something has changed w/her..but it’s ok,
because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either.I told myself I would do
whatever it took to keep my family together,to see a smile on someone
who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them
hope,faith,Love& dignity that I️ once possessed. But the truth is
all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar &
Vince??♀️ ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will
know what I mean.Sometimes we stay”married”for face value or to say”we
did it”??but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further
apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did
this,she did that,I️ put up with”this”& I’ve suffered &
endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2
stay??♀️we get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are
LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I️ decided I
didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a
relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our
failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit
online??♀️..some of us ??have been have been living a LIE!..&
sometimes when things R shared,what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has
one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when
he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”? or he’s so busy
lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is
it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like
glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our”
friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a
second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your”house when
I’m the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing
anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of
mine!That LAST time was the LAST time??