Battered, but not broken Nigerian lady has taken her time to go down memory lane, recounting how she stopped being a ‘runs girl’ and lessons she had learned.
Ngo Sika took to Facebook to state that ‘runs is a bit advanced’ than having sugar daddies, as one most times she does not know the person she is going to have sex with following a hook-up by friends.
She went ahead to reveal that she took the decision to stop sleeping with men for money in February 2018, after her boss gave her money for a decent accomodation which was way bigger than any man has ever given her.
She wrote; “I did alot of things in the past without a tangible excuse. Sleeping with men for money was one of them. Runs as it’s popularly called. I knew I hated every bit of runs, it’s a totally different thing to have 1 or 2 sugar daddies.
Runs is abit advanced. In runs, sometimes you do not know the man you are going to gbensh, you fit just get a call from a friend asking if you are free tonight and that’s it, you are off to fuck a man you have never met before.
While some ladies make a decent living out of runs, I knew I would not be successful as a runs girl, I felt dirty after every ordeal, I hated it and so the money I made out of runs, I usually gave out, to the needy.
Around February last year, my boss gave me some cash to look for a decent accommodation. The amount he gave me, no man in runs had given me, the money was way higher than my monthly salary. Then and then, I told myself that I was too great to open my leg for any man that had change in his hand.
I changed my mindset, and used my last card to register in NATIONAL OPEN UNIVERSITY. Still best decisions of 2018. I made a pact with the universe, that If I can have or be whatever I desire to be( according to Ozy Ik teachings) then I want to go to school and live a life that I personally will be proud of, IN ABUNDANCE.
It was hard from the beginning, I was always scared of being broke, hungry or homeless. But now, everything has finally fallen into place.
The blessings are overwhelming, most people I meet now, just wants to help me. Men do not look at me as a mere sex object anymore. People are interested in hearing what I have to say. And all these have happened and continued to happen because I STARTED TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE QUEEN IN ME.”