Gospel musician, Nathaniel Bassey has given bachelors advise concerning marriage. The trumpeter took to his twitter page to advise them on the need to get marriage on time. He spoke of how they might wait a longer time if they are waiting for the perfect conditions before getting married.
Read his tweets below.
”My dear brother, if you wait for that perfect condition to marry, you may wait a long time. Most important things are 1. You know it’s time. 2. You have met your God given wife to be. 3. You have a Job, a place to stay and begin life together. And Yes! It’s okay to start small.
Quit trying to wait for that perfect time with so much money to paint the town red on your wedding day. No matter how much and well you paint the town, people still won’t be satisfied. Plus At the end of the day, marriage is between YOU & YOUR WIFE.
You would be surprised that the key to that next level in your life is actually by taking the step of marriage. For He who finds a wife finds a good things and obtains Favour from the Lord.
If you find a good sister who is willing to begin life with you, and you have the things I listed, then take step of faith”.
Few weeks ago, Nathaniel Bassey also shared his opinion concerning how ladies ought to be treated in marriage. He said no lady should allow a man make her feel he’s doing her a favor by marrying her. Instead the person a favor is being done to is the man. He quoted a Bible verse to buttress his point as he also advised ladies not to become arrogant after having this knowledge. Read his tweets below.
”My dear sisters, No man should make you feel they are doing you a Favour marrying you. Actually it is the other way round, as the bible says a Man finds FAVOUR when He finds a wife. However, this shouldn’t make you arrogant. But rather carry yourself with grace and humility.
“The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22 NLThttps://bible.com. Hence p, you don’t make the treasure feel you are doing her a Favour. You are actually the one who should feel a deeper sense of gratitude to God.
Men who have found a wife that brings Favour would understand this. And I can attest to this. I’m not just speaking theory. Hence you won’t Acts like you are doing her a Favour marrying her. This understand makes you treasure her more”.
#BBNaija: Read the letter Bassey wrote to TBoss in the Big Brother house