Yesterday, we brought the news that Toyin Lawani expressed that you don’t need marriage to be happy, read here
. She has somewhat defended her statement. According to her men just need kids cause it’s important and they think women belong in the kitchen. Here is what she wrote;
“If I didn’t say?this it will be a case of I said that,please remember that we all have our notion about life and the situations we have been through,have overtime, influenced our thought process.Marriage is just a platform which humans need to use in defining and consoling each other,but at the end of the day,men just need kids??cause it’s important&we are the oven.most men think we belong in the kitchen.They hate when women are in control. I write this from an informed position” been there, done that”. I have been with someone who’s richer than me&also been with someone who I’m richer than,which has been a worthwhile experience to have a balanced viewpoint.As a woman,when you are at the receiving end in marriage,men just want to control you.I long for a situation where love strives&my drive for success is encouraged without my man being intimidated.most women make their men feel bad but I don’t,I’m humble&respect my man,age regardless.cse they are our kings,But men will always be men&women need to align with that fact¬ try to change that.even pastor Sef dey cheat,just pray to God to send u your Bestfriend,who will respect you enough not to bring shame into your home.At the end of the day everyone deserves to be happy,but not to stay in a bad marriage at the expense of their Happiness.Men cheat&all that money lavished on wedding becomes a waste,you go through divorce&your kids will be subjected to mental punishment.No woman on earth can Replace a father,I will rather spend my lifetime with my Bestfriend knowing we have each other till the end.People need to stop getting hassled into marriage&in the process,settle for the available (wrong man). let the will of God prevail in your life journey. If u hv a partner for ten years and eventually get married then that implies you have settled for a true friend whose friendship will permeate your union. married women in this part of the world sacrifice the most&still subjected to abuse&disrespect from their spouses .Where is the principle of equity&fairness.it’s a 50/50 thing,”sacrifice for me&I will sacrifice for you”.I love my career bt my kids come first,Be best friends then marriage will come.
At Gods time??”