Written by Joseph Rauch.
I recently read a piece recently
about a man describing what he wanted in a woman, what he believes most men
want in a woman, and how these qualities make the most beautiful and ideal
woman to be with. I agreed with some of it but was also put off by how he tried
to pretend the post represented what most men thought. He also used words such
as “submissive” as positive qualities for women to have. I can’t support
that notion, either. Because, you see, we’re all different. We all have
different ideals and different things we’re attracted to. So, here is what I am
looking for in my ideal partner, someone to date and then marry and possibly
have children with.
about a man describing what he wanted in a woman, what he believes most men
want in a woman, and how these qualities make the most beautiful and ideal
woman to be with. I agreed with some of it but was also put off by how he tried
to pretend the post represented what most men thought. He also used words such
as “submissive” as positive qualities for women to have. I can’t support
that notion, either. Because, you see, we’re all different. We all have
different ideals and different things we’re attracted to. So, here is what I am
looking for in my ideal partner, someone to date and then marry and possibly
have children with.
I want a woman who doesn’t play
games. I want a woman who isn’t put off by kindness, honesty, openness, and
being direct. She shouldn’t be afraid of me showing her that I care.
games. I want a woman who isn’t put off by kindness, honesty, openness, and
being direct. She shouldn’t be afraid of me showing her that I care.
I want a woman who knows how to be
selfless but also values her self. I want a woman who doesn’t pretend she is
busier than she is.
selfless but also values her self. I want a woman who doesn’t pretend she is
busier than she is.
I want a woman who is willing to be
honest with me even if it means hurting me. I want a woman who can bust my chops
and be funny without being downright mean. I want a woman who is excited to be
with me, who is excited by the very idea of me.
honest with me even if it means hurting me. I want a woman who can bust my chops
and be funny without being downright mean. I want a woman who is excited to be
with me, who is excited by the very idea of me.
I want a woman who tries to give as
good as she gets in the bedroom. She doesn’t have to be incredible. The effort
is what matters.
good as she gets in the bedroom. She doesn’t have to be incredible. The effort
is what matters.
I want a woman with an attractive
face. Face is paramount. You look into it when you tell her you love her and
you should at least attempt to look at it most of the time when she’s speaking.
The other physical features are secondary—bonuses, but not essential.
face. Face is paramount. You look into it when you tell her you love her and
you should at least attempt to look at it most of the time when she’s speaking.
The other physical features are secondary—bonuses, but not essential.
I want a woman who lets me take the
lead sometimes but also isn’t afraid to make the first move. I want a woman who
doesn’t think I’m less manly if I cry about something worth shedding tears for.
lead sometimes but also isn’t afraid to make the first move. I want a woman who
doesn’t think I’m less manly if I cry about something worth shedding tears for.
I want a woman who wants to get
married someday. I want a woman who doesn’t just admit it, but is honest about
it. Admitting it makes it seem shameful. Want what you want.
married someday. I want a woman who doesn’t just admit it, but is honest about
it. Admitting it makes it seem shameful. Want what you want.
I would prefer a woman who knows how
to cook so she can teach me how to do it better. I really suck at cooking. It
would be nice if she could cook for me, but I wouldn’t expect it.
to cook so she can teach me how to do it better. I really suck at cooking. It
would be nice if she could cook for me, but I wouldn’t expect it.
I want a woman who would be careful
and respectful with my money if I were providing for her. I want a woman who
would respect my parents, friends, and family even if she didn’t like them.
and respectful with my money if I were providing for her. I want a woman who
would respect my parents, friends, and family even if she didn’t like them.
I want a woman who would visit my
grave if I died. I want a woman who might move on eventually if I died young.
grave if I died. I want a woman who might move on eventually if I died young.
I want a woman who would try to make
time for me even if her career was demanding. I want a woman who loves what she
does.
time for me even if her career was demanding. I want a woman who loves what she
does.
I want a woman who will love me and
treat me well.
treat me well.
I want a woman I can fall in love
with.
with.