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#SoulTies How to recover from a nasty breakup

For the newbies, “Breaking Soul Ties” – is a weekly column by Olusola Adio – dedicated to help you understand
what #SoulTies are and how to break them with the power of God’s Word
and the power of the Holy Spirit.

Today, we are looking at how to
recover from a nasty break-up or a failed relationship and bounce back.

We start by examining our commitment to God and our salvation status
before looking at the importance of forgiveness and the elimination of a
bitter spirit. 

 I want to state that we are not here to condemn anyone or  stigmatize anyone who has repeatedly fallen
into sin due to #SoulTies.

We are here to expose #SoulTies as the
works of the enemy that the blood of Jesus has been shed to purge us from.

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We are also not here to
provide excuses and reasons for Christians to continue in sin due to a
misunderstanding of grace. #SoulTies
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The Bible states clearly
in Romans 6:23 that the wages of sin is death #SoulTies is no excuse for us to
continue in sin
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We are here to work out
our salvation (that Jesus already paid with His blood) from #SoulTies according
to God’s word.
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Today we are attempting
to answer a question, in the context of #SoulTies, which is how to recover from
a nasty breakup.
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Due to time constraints,
I assume that it’s
now accepted that d breakup is for real & u’re not coming back together again.
#SoulTies
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U r still dazed &
your inner circle has come to comfort you with d words on this pic. #SoulTies
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I saw this happen many
times when I was in UNI and this literally sapped life out of vibrant ladies on
campus overnight. #SoulTies
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I saw this happen to both
Christians and non-Christians in UNI so it wasn’t an experience that was localised to
1 group. #SoulTies
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I also personally
experienced this both on the emotional and spiritual sides. So I am sharing
practical stuff here. #SoulTies
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I will be sharing stuff
from the bible, the Word of God. It’s the most resourceful repository of wisdom I know of.
#SoulTies
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When this breakup
happens, we still hold on to thoughts and fantasies of what could have been if
breakup didn’t happen. #SoulTies
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Ladies are hit more badly
here cos they put more heart, life and hope into their relationships than men.
#SoulTies
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They would do all they
can to prevent their relationships from falling off d cliff. #SoulTies
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It’s a time where you are torn apart on
your insides wondering where you went wrong. #SoulTies
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You feel humiliated cos
you had told us this was it and changed your relationship status to engaged.
Now oops! #SoulTies
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You made him the face of
your laptop screensaver and your phone lock screen but oops! #SoulTies
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To think it felt so good
at the beginning and now its all turned to pain and anguish. #SoulTies
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After a breakup, there is
a vey toxic mix of emotions welling up in u; despair, revenge, confusion,
anger, hurt, loss etc #SoulTies
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Then your inner circle
turns up to give you all sorts of counsel just like they did to Job. #SoulTies
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Some say try crying and
you have cried, no improvement. Some say go on holiday, go eating, etc None
does d job. #SoulTies
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In the process, you even
resort to sentimental music with lyrics written by those who went through the
same. #SoulTies
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Then it becomes a
perpetual wound that u show to everyone who turns up to attract empathy &
an arm round your shoulder. #SoulTies
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Now let’s start #SoulTies 10 here by looking
at the God factor first and then on to the required human steps. #SoulTies
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In all we have said so
far, very little mention has been made of God. It’s been all about ourselves who got
injured. #SoulTies
Conclusion
Please follow the link below to read the complete post on
recovering from a nasty breakup. Looking forward to seeing you again next week.
Please share this post with all your friends. https://breakingsoulties.wordpress.com/2013/11/25/1117/  
Announcement
I have a new recording titled “Can a condom stop
#SoulTies?”. You can listen to it here. —> 
https://breakingsoulties.wordpress.com/2014/08/14/can-a-condom-stop-soulties/ 
On this clip, I answer a question asked on Twitter whether the use of a
condom can stop the flow of #SoulTies between a man and a woman who are in a
sexual relationship. Every man should download this gist.
My contact details are
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Twitter: @SoulTiesTweets https://www.twitter.com/soultiestweets
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