Nollywood actor, Emeka Ike is still finding it difficult to believe he’s no longer married to his wife, Suzanne Emma.
unexpected happened earlier this year when his 14-year-old marriage to
Emma was dissolved by a Lagos Island Customary Court over alleged
Emma had on July 13, 2015, approached the court
to dissolve the marriage, accusing her former husband of physically and
verbally abusing her throughout the duration of their marriage. But the
star actor was not ready to let her go, as he pleaded with the court to
Unfortunately, his plea yielded no results as the
court finally dissolved their marriage on the grounds that it was
beyond redemption. Since then, Emeka Ike has never been the same again.
to him, the most painful part of his life was watching the mother of
his four children walk out of their marriage despite his plea to
reconcile with her which fell on deaf ears. He shares his pains, his
anguish and regrets, vowing, however, to unravel the circumstances that
led to the crashing of the marriage.
He also believes that his wife was used to blackmail him by those who want him dead.
You took a long break from acting, what happened?
tried to restructure the man, Emeka Ike. Emeka Ike is a leader and as a
leader, you need to appraise and reappraise your empire and
achievements. So, I have been appraising my constituency and I am happy
that we are moving forward.
At a point, you relocated to Abuja from Lagos. What actually prompted your decision to move to Abuja?
felt that my life was seriously threatened in Lagos. I have said it
before that I am going to arrest some people very soon. In fact, some
people took advantage of the AGN crisis to threaten my life and all that
will be sorted out very soon by the police.
I relocated to Abuja
to avoid a situation where I would be walking on the streets of Lagos
and a criminal would gun me down. I used my discretion to stay away
while I watched from afar what was happening in Lagos.
why that woman (his ex wife) is no longer living with me. God knows I am
not a wife beater. I didn’t touch her and my children testified to that
in court. I don’t know what came over her and who used her to blackmail
me. But all that will be unravelled soon.
Are you saying that you never raised your hands on your ex wife?
you watched that one movie, where the wife was saying “everything is
alright between me and my husband. He takes care of me and provides all
my needs”. That was the situation between my wife and I.
didn’t know I would have blamed her sudden change of character on my
enemies. I love her so much. Why would she blackmail me by claiming that
I was always beating her up when I didn’t.
To avoid the disturbing mess, I had to abandon my businesses and house in Lagos and find a new life in Abuja.
Does it mean you were not prepared for the divorce?
wasn’t. I don’t even believe we are divorced and I cannot remarry
again. I am a real Christian and Christians don’t divorce. I told the
court that I’m not divorcing my wife but they went ahead and got an
injunction against a High Court order.
Why was she trying to walk
out of her marriage? Who was advising her to divorce me? I must see to
the end of this matter because they have put my children out there
without a mother. She’s in pain wherever she is right now because I know
they are dealing with her.
I learnt that she was beaten black and
blue by one wife snatcher sometime ago, beside Mobil Petrol Station on
Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. My own wife beaten up like a common criminal! I
want to know what has gone wrong with my wife, I want to know the devil
that is behind this.
What is the extent of blackmail that brought her to this degrading level?
Inspector General of Police will be investigating into the matter very
soon. While doing this, I have to stay away from Lagos because they
could be after me.
You accused Pastor Chris
Okotie of Household of God Church International Ministries of being the
brain behind your marital crisis. How did he come into the picture?
The guy who is confusing my wife attends his church. He’s one of the elders of the church. It’s a church arrangement.
there is crisis in the family, a true man of God should invite both
husband and wife with the aim of resolving their differences but Chris
Okotie refused to pick my calls.
I called him on the telephone, he usually avoided my calls. As a man of
God, he was supposed to use his position to save our marriage. I didn’t
chase my wife out of my house, I wanted Chris Okotie to advise her to
return to her husband but he refused to pick my calls.
He did not
bother to find out what went wrong between us. While I am still alive,
my wife was demanding that I should ‘will’ part of my property to her.
She shut down a school I spent millions of naira to establish.
was telling her to make such a demand? Where is she taking the property
to? What happens to our children who will inherit my property? She was
insisting on getting her own share of my property.
At that point, I
had to leave Lagos for Abuja because some people were strongly behind
her and my life was no longer safe. But I’m coming back to Lagos soon.
My house and property are still in Lagos. Nothing is hidden under the
earth that cannot be unearthed someday.
She blackmailed me for what I am not. You will feel sorry for a man whose wife was blackmailed to blackmail the entire family.
Despite the pain she has caused you, you still declare your undying love for her?
never dies. Real love doesn’t die, forget what we are talking about.
The Bible says that “love covers multitude of sin.” She’s the mother of
my children. She was nobody when I met her, she never knew her father.
built a house for her family in Lagos and also in Isoko. I trained her
up to the master’s degree level. I gave her the exposure she needed in
life. There are thousands of pretty girls who would want to marry me the
first week we got divorced. But I am a gentleman, it is not about
marriage for me now, it’s about doing the right thing.
wrong with my woman? If it’s something we can redeem her from, we will
still redeem her. Forget about marrying her again. I don’t need to marry
again, but I need to know what was wrong with my wife. I need to know
why she started blackmailing me.
Can you welcome her back into your life if she returns to you?
her back is not the problem, but let her confess and get herself back. I
believe she’s under the influence of something.
How did you feel watching her walk out of her marriage ?
It’s the most painful part of my life. I cried for 24 hours every day for three to four years.
I was just asking myself what is happening to me. You know, in
blackmail, you will not know what is going on because somebody is
playing the game.
It was much later that I knew what was happening
to me. I need to know the strength of these blackmailers because we
have law in this country. And with the law, we will look at the issues
Are your children missing their mother?
are not because they feel disappointed in her. She was their heroine.
Her son was begging her, saying “mummy please come back because of me.”
But she replied him; “I am going to marry another man and have other
If you can say that to your first son, it’s either you
have a mental problem or you are not okay spiritually. She even said to
the judge that she wanted to have other children after having four
children. What is wrong with her?
Her case beats my imagination. I
have been blackmailed, undermined and I have been crushed. She closed
down my school on the day I travelled, an investment that a student at
St Nicholas was paying N385, 000, per session as school fees amounting
to N880,000 every year.
She went to the landlord and asked him to come and reclaim his property. Who is behind all these things?
cannot be unfair to me and get away with it, not when I’m still alive
and seeking justice. I met her on the street and I saved her from the
street. She told me she’s from a poor home and that she never met her
I promised her that I would be her father and her lover. I gave her too much opportunity to swallow me.
Vanguard reports that when they contacted Emma, she said she has moved on with her life. Emma said:
marriage is over. I have moved on with my life. I am not willing to
talk about it again. His actions have not shown that he’s remorseful.