I have nothing but love for you, but after I watched all 45 mins or so of your interview, I am a bit disappointed.
Tiwa, I know it hurts when a relationship breaks down, and those
accusations T Billz made were extremely hurtful, nonetheless, I believe
you could have employed caution when responding, since according to you,
he was unstable and suicidal.
In law, if for instance, you walk in on your man in
bed with another woman and you shoot him on the spot, you could get a
lighter sentence, if your legal counsel argues provocation. On the flip
side, if you walk out of the scene to get a gun and then launch an
attack, it’s now considered premeditated.
The fact that you granted a ‘pitch perfect’ interview, with a flawless
visual background and superb audio quality, in my opinion looks a bit
If you had denied all his accusations and asked to swear on ayelala or
amadioha or sango as against the lie detector test, since on no instance
has a polygraph ever been used in Nigeria, and if afterwards you had
requested for privacy, as you deal with such a sensitive issue, this
matter would have been laid to rest. How are you going to tell Nigerians
not to talk about issues you ‘used your own hand’ to make public? This
could only serve to further delay your healing.
Even though my prayer is for your issues to be resolved and for joy to
return to your home, the breakdown of a marriage is not the end of the
world, I have been through it and my world did not end. However, do you
realize that the interview you gave could lead to the end of TJ’s world?
Who is now going to hire, work with, or have any business dealings with
an unstable, adulterous, fraudulent, cocaine sniffer who cannot manage
money and has his priorities misplaced? Whether you like it or not, that
is what the interview has delineated him to be. In furtherance to this,
if he was suicidal before, this interview is only going to make him
even more suicidal!
I know you both love Jamil so in all this drama, lets be very careful to
shield him, as the Internet never forgets and his friends and
classmates will always have his father’s tweets along with your
interview as points of reference.