Nollywood actor and filmmaker, Yomi Fabiyi has cried out over the difficulty of falling in love after several failed relationships.
In a lengthy post on his IG, Yomi Fabiyi revealed that he has been bruised severely as most of the women pick on the soft part of him so easily.
He claims that they give him security assurances, and pretend they want him, but after using him, they show their true color and discard him disdainfully.
Because of this, he has stopped getting involved or being too available for any woman in and out of the industry in a bid to reduce his online and offline drama and altercations.
He noted how they always come for him with blogs, comment sections, fake accounts, etc despite his good actions, intentions, and sacrifices toward them.
Yomi Fabiyi added that the hardest part of it is that they don’t just try to use and dump him, but try to destroy his brand.
“I have been bruised severely as most of these women pick on the soft part of me so easily. They give security assurances, pretend they want you, and after using me, they show their true color and discard disdainfully especially if you are not tied to their spell.
I have stopped getting involved too available for any woman in and out of the industry, that way I may reduce my online and offline drama and altercations. They come for me with blogs, comment sections, fake accounts, etc despite my good actions, intentions, and sacrifices towards them (their curse and drama).
Not everybody is raised with loyalty and functional memory. Desperate cowards and pretenders will do anything and use anybody to achieve their aims. You lose value the moment they hit their target.
I learned the hardest ways. Sad part is they didn’t just try to use and dump, they try to destroy the brand, so you lose your bragging rights on them (Bit God judge the heart). One even created a terrible blog, always set me up for cyberbullying BUT today, KARMA is dealing hard with her, the syndicate, and this is just the beginning for them and their household.
Overall, IT IS HARD TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN for me oh… Hopefully….”.
This is coming as a surprise as early this year, Yomi Fabiyi had hinted at being in a new relationship when he flaunted a mystery woman online and shaded his ex.
Yomi Fabiyi and Grace Jimoh’s messy breakup
Recall that Yomi Fabiyi and Grace Jimoh had a messy breakup that rocked the internet in 2022.
The former ‘IT’ couple called out each other on their respective social media, revealing secrets about their relationship.
Grace Jimoh accused Yomi Fabiyi of leaving her depressed after he took over their joint properties when she left for Imo state.
The mother of one and an aspiring actress alleged that Yomi Fabiyi left her and her son in the dark, stating he took everything they shared, including the new phone he bought for her.
Yomi Fabiyi denied the allegations by sharing a video to refute the allegations leveled against him by his baby mama.
Yomi Fabiyi slammed her for playing the gender card to gain public sympathy and financial aid at the expense of his career and mental health.
According to him, choosing between evil, wickedness, violence, blackmail, or peace, love, respect, and humility has nothing.
Sharing a video of Grace in labor, Yomi Fabiyi questioned if she looked beaten or maltreated.
Yomi added that he gave Grace all the respect, dignity, and care any woman carrying one’s child should get, yet she chose to criminally defame him that he beat her to a stupor that led to forced labor.
Mo Bimpe accuses Yomi Fabiyi of sexual assault
The movie star had also fallen in love with Mo Bimpe, who later accused him of sexual assault.
Recall that for years, there had been rumors of Mo Bimpe having an escapade with Yomi when she was working with him.
Contradicting the reports, Mo Bimpe stated that Yomi didn’t ask her out until she finished shooting his movie, Oko Iyabo which shot her into the limelight.
According to her, Yomi stated that if he knew she would have turned his proposal down, he would have made his feelings known before shooting the movie with her.
Mo Bimpe added that she isn’t on talking terms with the actor because he told her to either date her or be enemies with her and she had no choice but to choose the latter.
According to the actress, the primary reason for Yomi Fabiyi’s action was that she didn’t make herself available for his sexual needs despite how much he had pressured her.
Yomi Fabiyi replies Mo Bimpe over ‘sex for role’ accusation
Refuting her claims, Yomi Fabiyi said that it was safe to say some people will want to destroy the ladder they use in climbing to the top by all means possible and that nothing is as efficacious as Natural Justice.
In an Instagram post, Yomi Fabiyi shared a photo of Mo Bimpe and attached evidence of how their conversation started. Then in a lengthy post, he blasted the actress, emphasizing that he never offered her or anyone sex for role.
Buttressing his points, Yomi, stressed that he is an adult and it is within his rights to be sexually attracted to any adult provided no force or coercion was involved. And that he has rights to sexual feelings provided it is within the ambits of the law.
He then appealed to her to be bold enough to call out those she offered sex in the industry to get to wherever she is now.