Stop blaming Osinachi for not leaving her marriage, you don’t know what she was going through – Precious Chikwendu opens up

The ex-wife of former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode, Precious Chikwendu has urged Nigerians blaming late singer Osinachi Nwachukwu for not speaking out against Domestic Violence to seize fire.

The mother of four who has been fighting dirty with her ex-husband over the custody of her sons said no one can understand the weight on a victim of domestic violence or how much pains they go through.

Sharing her personal experience and evidence on her Verified Instagram handle, she wrote, “I’ve been silently reading so much of the blames people are heaping on Osinachi for not speaking up. Sweethearts you can’t understand the weight on a victim of domestic violence or how we go through so much compact mentalizing how the world would look at us, close friends waiting to laugh at us, those who would say we warned you, how our family members would humiliate us of putting them to shame if we do leave, how we would be irrelevant in places where we were deemed relevant by status of marriage or maintaining a home.”

Precious Chikwendu added, “You all forget that a narcissistic partner is one who feels threatened by the abilities or potential of their partner and I’ve said this to so many women and men I’ve had a chance to speak with after eating enough of this breakfast, That if he or she is intimidated by your personality , achievements, charisma, Strength or God given talent, sweetheart run for your life. Envy mixed with a slice of hate is violence prone when it has to do with partners or lovers . If he or she can’t learn to talk over arguments without turning a red eye on you, screaming at you which gradually graduates to punches, the absolute need to intimidate or silence you on every unintended provocation,  adrenaline rush when they exert authority or control , RUN.”

Kemi Filani had reported how late singer Osinachi Nwachukwu was allegedly killed by her husband.