Nigerian singer, Chidinma Ekile has shared an important message to her millions of followers on the importance of limiting how one helps people.
The gospel singer, disagreed with Davido’s popular catchphrase ‘We Rise By Lifting Others’, as she noted how one can fall by lifting others.
The light-skinned singer cautioned her fans to limit the amount of help they render to others. She further told them to avoid doing too much and allow anyone guilt trip them or manipulate them into getting money off them.
“You can actually fall by lifting others, put a limit to how you help people. Don’t do too much, and never allow them guilt trip or manipulate you into getting money off you”.
Taking to the comment section, many concurred with her.
One Ladyque wrote, “Givers need to set limits because takers never get tired of taking
One Its Pretty Oprah wrote, “Exactly, and when you fall those people won’t remember when you helped them, they will only remember the bad things you’ve done
One Sossi Official wrote, “Takers will always take Dem no send your papa
One Amy Shine wrote, “Some people will drain you till you have nothing left. RUN from people who bill too much. They will make you go from grace to grass
One The Real Beth wrote, “Don’t help leeches! Help people with potential!! They’ll see it as an investment. The entitled ones would always drain you
One Ekeson Money wrote, “No be lie oo, gives don dey lack now
One Adeolu Olatomide wrote, “Givers don dey lack. Before Dem use you, use your sense”.
Weeks back, Davido had lamented over the level of ingrate in the world, as he expressed heartbreak over the level of ungratefulness in the industry.
He stated that he has learned his lesson while quoting the popular catchphrase “street no get money”.
This came after his former friend and colleague, Dammy Krane resumed dragging him over an alleged debt from their hit song, Pere.
He claimed that all efforts to reach out to the singer last year, proved abortive, which left him with no choice but to publicly call him out.
Following a public call-out by Nigerian businessman, Abu Salami over an alleged debt Davido owed him, Dammy Krane had appealed to the billionaire musician to pay him his debt for his daughter’s sake, whose school fees need to be paid.
Replying to him, Davido recounted how he housed and fed him in Atlanta when he was homeless and more and Dammy hit back sharing his side of the story.