Nollywood actor Bolanle Ninalowo has opened up on the reformation he took to win back his wife.
The actor’s marriage hasn’t been a bed of roses as the couple had to go through a tough path to keep their marriage afloat.
In an interview with media personality, Chude Jideonwo, Bolanle revealed how he almost messed up his marriage with his constant cheating and frivolous lifestyle.
He disclosed that because of his shameful lifestyle, he lost control over his wife as she outgrew him.
According to him, he couldn’t call her to pick her calls because he had lost control over her.
To get his wife back, he had to start afresh and detoxify all that he had done.
“I needed to take time back to see what I have done to her. The years when I was feeling to young and cheating all day, making it hard. The years when I wasn’t there and pursuing my dreams.
I forgot this was a human being that was taking records and taking experiences of how life is as well.
So I became somebody that she didn’t recognize any more.
At some point, I couldn’t call her to pick my call. The woman I had control over, I had no more control cause she outgrew me. So to get back I needed to start afresh to detoxify all that I have done. It was a process and I had to go back to the bottom”.
Ninalowo prays for women
Bolanle Ninalowo had said a word of prayer for women.
Taking to his Instagram page to eulogise women, Bolanle revealed what keeps the fear of God in him.
According to him, remembering his mother’s pain in covering him, her unrelented love and undiluted support and that of his wife, keeps God’s fear in him.
Bolanle added that it guides and re-directs him when he slip and let’s him know how much he owes to their existence.
“Knowing my mother’s pain in conceiving me, remembering her unrelenting love & undiluted support even tru all my adversities & wrongs.
Knowing my wife’s pain in conceiving the beautiful kids that gladdens my heart on a daily and remain my greatest source of joy and inspiration. Knowing how much is given up by my mother & wife just for me to exhale. This keeps the fear of God in my imperfect self.
It guides me and re-directs me even when I slip and let’s me know how much I owe to their existence. Knowing that there couldn’t have ever been a me without at-least one of them “WOMEN”. There are no perfect humans, however there is wisdom and the FEAR OF GOD. May God bless and protect my Women & yours. Maka”.
Bolanle Ninalowo opens up on his growth
The father of two had reminisced on his growth and how he changed his life over the years to become better.
In a post shared on his Instagram page, Bolanle Ninalowo expressed surprise at how he changed his life over the years and is now an inspiration to himself.
According to Bolanle Ninalowo, it took him pain, agony, accepting responsibility, and choosing differently to be the best version of himself.
In his word: “The way I changed my life around over the years for the better! To becoming the better version of me! Now i am my own inspiration .
The pain & agony it took thou!!
I took responsibility, I Choose different & the best version of me now in the making!
Thank you Bolanle
May Gods Grace never cease