Big Brother Naija double wahala housemate, Bamike Olawunmi Adenibuyan popularly known as Bambam has given her parenting advice on an interesting subject, which many parents fear.
The mother of two has revealed her best solutions to stopping her daughters from having a gender change.
In a recent podcast, Bambam stated that if her child ever approaches her for a gender change, she would reorient and educate her on the need to retain her gender.
As an African mum, if her daughter remains persistent on her gender change, she would take it to God to help her fix her daughter’s mind.
Bambam, added that she would go extra miles to change her daughter’s decision by showing her her private parts and that of the opposite g£nder.
“If my child tells me ‘mum u want to be a boy’s. I will ask questions, and will reorient and educate.
Or I will go on my knees and tell my father in heaven to fix her mind.
Biologically, I will show her my private part and tell her that we have the same thing. Daddy’s own is different. I will bring a man’s naked picture and show her what they have is different….”.
Teddy A likes his women big, so he didn’t make me feel bad” Bambam speaks on post partum depression
Last year, Bambam had opened up on dealing with Post Partum depression.
The reality star who had just welcomed her second child, a baby girl had opened up on dealing with depression and loving her new size.
In an interview with media personality, Stephanie Coker, she revealed that she was mercilessly dragged on social media for her plus size.
She disclosed that she had to develop a tough skin to handle their criticisms.
Bambam added that she was lucky her husband, Teddy A loved how women big, so he didn’t make her feel bad.
She said, “They came for my jogular. They said alot of nasty things and one day I was just like who are you people, who give una mind to talk to me anyhow. You guys are inexistence. I said I was going to go through this when I am ready to hop and snap back. Before my second baby, I had lost some weights.
She added, “I used to be size 8 and I went from that to size 14 to 16 (after pregnancy). I didn’t expect it, but thank God, Teddy like is women big so he never made me feel bad about it”.
