Nollywood actor Mustapha Sholagbade has united with his dumped baby mama, Adewunmi Fatai, to celebrate their son, Yasir’s birthday today, 9th of June 2022.
The actor took to his verified Instagram to shower love and prayers on his son. In addition, he wished his beloved son to live a perfect life.
He wrote: I Celebrate you OMO Mi, happy 6th Years birthday Muhammad Yasir Sholagbade. You are a blessing as always. I pray for wisdom, knowledge and understanding to live a good and perfect life. Livelong and keep winning OMO OLA daddy loves you.
Adewunmi Fatai, on her official Instagram page, shared multiple stunning photos of her son to mark his day. The actress and makeover artiste also penned sweet and warming words to celebrate her son.
She wrote: I can’t believe a year has gone by this quickly, my swt son. You continue to grow, learn and amaze. I luk forward to another happy year with u in our lives. Still your day OREOFEOLUWA OKO MAMAE.
Nollywood stars are not left out of the celebration as they took to the parents’ respective social media timelines to send a word of prayer for the celebrant.
Kemi Filani recalls that Mustapha Sholagbade opened up on what caused the rift between him and his baby mama, Adewunmi Fatai.
In an interview with City People, Mustapha Sholagbade disclosed why he separated from his lover.
What really happened between you and your baby mama?
Firstly, I have been hearing people calling her my wife which is not true. We are not married yet, she just got a baby for me whom I can’t deny but nothing else is attach to it. She was a good friend to me before the issue of the pregnancy set in and as a responsible man, I summoned the courage to see it as my cross and I decided to take it. She is a good friend and a good colleague. From the start, we were just friends but along the line the baby came in. Later, I foresaw it that the relationship may lead to a good place and I cautioned myself. When the issue of the pregnancy came up, it was a shock because we were not in good term because weren’t talking for months but I accepted my fate. Later on, I made up my mind to go for her and marry her but as the popular Yoruba adage has it, “Eyan ti Antori e Gbawe Ti o J’san” literarily in other words, means she is not worth it. I wanted to make things work out between us but she is not ready. I wanted to marry her but there are things she does which I don’t appreciate and I called her attention to it. I believe if there is true love we should be able to iron out thing among ourselves.
Did you catch her with another man while you were dating?
I didn’t but there was a time we fought before the baby came, and when we reconciled. I asked her if she has found a man and she was like I shouldn’t bother and I am a kind of person who trusts and falls in love easily but once the person messes up, I will never look back. Nobody can change my mind again, I can only listen to you but what I will do is within me. Her stress was too much for me which I couldn’t take any more. After the baby, I learnt she has gotten another boy friend which is none of my business because she her life to live. As far as my son is okay, I am fine. She will eventually marry someone someday. The baby is 6 month, this December. At a time, I told her to stop posting the photos of my son on social media or parties and her response was what i my business with that, she said she can take my son to her own boyfriend’s house! I was shocked but it is normal. It’s just that it is too early to start doing such when our child is not even up to 6 months.
We learnt that you guy were staying together, how factual is that?
That is true, when she was pregnant, I was catering for her despite the fact that we didn’t have a smooth relationship because there were lots of fights and quarrels. She rained curses on me a lot which I still have some evidence of that at hand. I prayed to God that if it’s true that I related with her with one mind, her curses shouldn’t have an impact in my life and I thank God for that. After the 41 days, she wasn’t calling and that passed a message. I also didn’t call her because I have sealed up my mind but a real woman keeps her home. After all, they claim to own the house. We stayed together for that period she was pregnant. As a responsible man, I did that to stay with her till she delivered. Till date I am still taking care of my child but I don’t have interest in his mum again. I can say it all because it will look like I am exposing my baby mama which I won’t do. So, just let me stop here.
