What my in-laws did during my 10 years of childlessness – Tricia Eseigbe-Kerry


Nollywood actress and talk show host, Tricia Eseigbe-Kerry welcomed a bouncing baby girl on July 14, 2020 after 10 years of childlessness.

In a recent interview with The Sun, the proud mother revealed how supportive her husband and in- laws were during her trying times.

“Fortunately, there was no pressure from my in-laws, my husband and family. I have a very superb family support system, which helped in coping as well. I know it is not the case with everyone and I would like to use this medium to plead with our society not to pressure women that are experiencing the same challenges like I did, because it is a very difficult journey which does not require unnecessary pressure from in-laws, family and friends. There are so many things physically, mentally and medically that these women are going through.

These are parts of the things that motivated me in setting up my foundation about women and children christened, Boldfaces Women & Children Development Initiative. I truly pray that people will give women that are looking for the fruits of the womb more positive support,” she said.

On how she pulled through the darkest days of childlessness, and the joys of motherhood, she says, ” it was 10 years of stigmatization, 10 years of ridicule, 10 years of unprecedented orthodox and traditional medical procedures, all in the quest to have a baby. But we thank God we are here to tell a positive story after this traumatic last 10 years. Be it physical, mental, spiritual, financial, psychological, anyway you can describe it; it wasn’t a pleasant journey. I managed to cope with my faith in God and His grace that strengthens me to this day.”

On motherhood she added, ” It is exciting; we give God all the glory. It is every woman’s dream and our society’s expectation that once you get married, you start having children. But the most important thing is that children are the next generation. I am happy.’

Source: kemifilani.ng


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