Singer Simi has been making statements which shows how much opinionated she is about marriage.
Recall how she criticized Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Christ Embassy who appeared in a viral video saying “husband means master in a marriage”.
While giving a sermon to his congregation, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome said, “Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage. Husband means master. That’s what it means, not the male partner in a marriage”.
Reacting to the statement by the clergyman, Simi questioned why any man would want to be seen as master in marriage.
She tweeted:
“Qst is – why you so desperate for another human being to see you as master? Is it a complex? Are u worried u’re not enough to earn respect without Paul and co? Are you scared that if there was no bible, you really have nothing else to offer? Tell me.
“Cos the way I fucking see it, a real man commands respect by being good, kind, true, selfless, having a good heart. Any1 can call him/herself a leader, but true leaders serve and are selfless. Talking about Jesus. Did you even read about the Jesus you’re talking about? Lol. Jokes”
She also slammed Ghanaian Counselor, Charlotte Oduro for her comment on cheating husbands.
Charlotte advised:
“ If he is cheating, let him cheat, when he finish, he’ll come … Marriage needs a lot of sacrifice, women we need to learn this. Men have ego, you can’t change it, that’s the way they are, women need to submit … let him cheat when he’s tired he’ll come ”.
In response, Simi stated that the Ghanaian may have made that statement while not in her right sense of mind.
The latest from Simi sees her kicking against Tunde Ednut and the advice he gave women on marriage.
He had shared: “Women, no matter what transpired between you and him, be a source of rest when you husband returns from work, not a source of stress. Women who are sources of stress to their husband may lose them to women who are source of rest”.
She reacted: “Who will be her source of rest when she returns from work? Lol. You need to start telling people to love their partner how they want to be loved – period. Whatever you can’t take don’t do. And vice versa. Love is not complicated. You people turn marriage to work especially for the woman. Anybody looking to be baied or tolerated because “God said” should stay single”.
Simi is married to fellow singer Adekunle Gold.