Anwinli Ojeikere (Mrs Winlo) of The Winlos comedy has now revealed that she found it difficult to apologize before and after she got married.
In a post on Facebook, she stated that as a single she thought it would be easier to apologize after she got married, only for this attitude to remain after she got wedded.
However, she was able to change after some time through the help of God. See her post below…
“Before i got married, i found it hard apologising and i was very head strong. It had to be my way or no other. I will display this kind of attitude to my friends and family.
I felt when i get married, it would be easier to apologise and submit easily to my husband afterall a wife is meant to submit to her husband not friends or some random guy.
I got married and saw this very attitude in my singlehood reflect in my marriage. My husband will say it’s this way and i will say it has to be my way without thinking or hearing him out. He would say, Anwinli there are no two men in this house(Lol). Saying sorry was a hard one even to my husband. Thank God i have changed🤦😂
What am i even trying to say😁
If you don’t start working on your attitude, you will reflect such attitude even in marriage because marriage is the union of two personalities. The exchange of vows don’t change the person. It is the person that decides the willingness for a change. It is important you do a review of your personality while you wait on God for a spouse. Don’t be deceived with statements like: He/she will love me for who i am. Yes!!! While they get married to you for who you are, staying married requires a character development because getting married and staying successfully married are two different level.
***Whatever is that bad character you currently display, you can ask God to break you and make you a better person.”