Man impregnates girlfriend during NYSC, dumps her, marries another lady secretly

A Twitter user @Prettyliviah who revealed why ‘men are real scum’,has recounted the ordeal of her friend in the hands of her lover.

According to her, her girlfriend got to know she pregnant just few weeks after she arrived NYSC camp in 2016. However, her lover who initially rejected the baby but came back after the baby was born, got married to someone else just after reigniting their love.

Here’s her tweet;

When we say men are scum, you’d think it’s an insult but on the real “Men are real scum” THREAD.

So my friend got pregnant for her boyfriend in 2016, she didn’t know she was pregnant until she got into NYSC camp. By the time she got out of camp after 3 weeks she was already 6 weeks in.

She didn’t want to take the risk of aborting so she kept the child despite the guy insisting that she aborts the child. She stayed back in Niger where she was posted and didn’t inform her parents until she had bore the child.

When the child was a month old, she informed her parents on phone and her parents told her not to come back home ever cos her mum was the leader of the Christian women in church. After everything, her family accepted her but the boyfriend’s family rejected her and the child.

The boyfriend didn’t support in taking care of the child pre-natal and post – natal. He came back when the child was about 6 months old to beg her and they continued their love afterwards while they planned for the future.

In December, his attitude changed he stopped picking her calls or checking up on her. Today, he called her to Domino’s Pizza in Herbert Marculay Way, Yaba to inform her that he got married to someone else in December.

She’s so devastated and I don’t even know how to console her. She doesn’t know where to start from or how to inform her parents of the new development. And all hopes of a happy ending just ended. Men would forever be scum. END


Tireni Adebayo

Tireni Adebayo is the Editor of Kemi Filani Blog. When she is not writing, she is either listening to music or reading her favorite books.Email: [email protected]


  1. This is not a matter of Men are SCUM. You friend was plain stupid.

    1). What was she expecting from having sex before marriage?. Like i always say , “Don’t tempt the devil”

    2). He rejected the child and you ended up going back to him after everything. REALLY? What were you expecting?

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