What the former actress and divorced mother of two wrote on Instagram after the cut…
“Love does not hurt
What you love, you protect
The rate of domestic violence in Nigeria ?? is alarming
our elected officials are mute about it. No Legislation put in place to
protect against domestic violence and to punish its perpetrators. Why
have we become immune to it? Domestic violence is no respectal of class,
status, fame, religion or creed. No one is immune from it man or woman?
remain in an abusive relationship? To please society? To have the title
of Mrs or Mr after your name? For fortune , fame or pleasure?
It starts slowly and metamorphose into a beast you can’t control.
Why not leave to Live?
So many have died and many more dying as I write this.
You should love yourself enough not to let anyone scar you.
Why do women protect there abusers?
There is no shame in walking
away. Do not conform to what society sets for you as standards of
marriage or relationship. Every faith should condemn violence.
To my brothers; Why hit the one you claim to love? What happened to walking away?
will you do if your mother, sister, daughter or aunt calls you or come
home with a battered face? will you defend them against their abusers or
tell them ‘such is life because you are guilty of same crime’ ? Would
you protect them? If yes, why would you subject someone else’s daughter
to same faith of abuse?
Only cowards hit women and people?
Woman hear word!!
away, if you fall out of love with your loved one, please explain it to
the people your decision will affect the most directly and walk away.
It becomes a burden when you want to eat your cake and have it. Emotions
and feelings are strong.. It’s better to shed a few tears temporary
than being scared for life or worst of all end 6 feet.
from where they live and grow.. Home is their first school, they exhibit
what they see their parents do. Protect them so they don’t grow up
thinking it’s normal to hit or abuse anyone.
Please let’s end this vicious cycle.
heart goes out to all going through this phase and any who has been
through this phase. The scars might heal but the wounds lingers for
Walk away while you can.
#No shame in being a single lady
#No shame in being a single mom”