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Who am I to question to God | Woman delivers conjoined twins in Enugu (photo)


An Enugu-based couple, Segun and Mary Ayeni, have shown great hope despite birthing a set of conjoined twin girls.

Speaking
with Punch Newspaper, the parents of the girls, Miracle and
Testimony, expressed optimism despite the condition of their twin
daughters born on November 16, 2015, who are joined at the groin.

The father, Segun, 35, explained how, despite his initial reaction of trauma, his faith gave him the courage to pull through.

He
said, “Naturally, you would be a little bit traumatised. That is
natural. But in everything, when you know the word of God, it will
strengthen you more, because it is part of life. There is nothing one
can do about it. It has happened.

“When I first heard it was
going to be twins, I was happy. But later they said they were joined in
some way and I asked, ‘Conjoined how?’
“I thought it was the kind of
thing whereby they would be separated immediately. But I later
discovered that if they should try to operate immediately, we would lose
the two (girls).”

Interestingly, the children are very healthy. According to their father, they are in perfect condition.

Ayeni
said, “It was after the birth that we knew for certain that the babies
were conjoined. When they (the doctors) were talking about it, I didn’t
understand, not until the babies came out.

“They are not
connected to anything (machine). They eat normally; they poo (defecate)
and wee (urinate) normally because they have separate genitals and legs.

“They
are not sharing any vital organs, according to the doctors. That is why
they said their chances of surviving are very high. They are okay,
except for the occasional fever, which is normal, and within one or two
days, it is gone.”

Like Segun, his wife, Mary, attributed the birth to God and expressed an assurance that the twins were born for a purpose.
The
couple, who celebrated their third wedding anniversary in December, had
their first daughter, Marvellous, on November 19, 2013.

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According to the mother of three, Marvellous has had a normal relationship with her siblings.

The day Mary took her firstborn along to the hospital; she said Marvellous played with them like any child would.

The
mother said, “After the birth, I was told that they were conjoined, but
it was two weeks later that I saw the children face-to-face. I
delivered the babies by caesarean section. While I was in the hospital
recuperating, the babies were transferred to the University of Nigeria
Teaching Hospital.

“It was a week after that I went there to see them and I was happy because they are strong; it was just that they are conjoined.

Will I question God? What will I do as their mother? God gave them to me,” she said

The twins, who are still in the Intensive Care Unit at UNTH, are visited by their mother every day.

Segun
noted that though they went for five ultrasounds, they were unprepared
for the peculiar birth. He added that the true nature of the children’s
condition was kept from him.

He said, “They were just telling us,
‘It seems they are joined somewhere.’ They would not open up to you
because they don’t know the kind of heart you have. You know that some
people may not have the heart to withstand such a thing. It may be a
strange thing to the person.

“Initially, they were even saying
(they shared) one leg. An ultrasound (scan) can only give you (a view)
of the full-fledged human form between six to seven months (to the
delivery). We did it again in the sixth month.

Segun said tests
were run on the twins regularly, adding that an average of N25,000 to
N35,000 was spent for his children’s care weekly, while the fees could
be much more, depending on the tests.

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“The doctors are constantly
checking to see if any of their vital organs are joined in any way.
There’s another one we are about to do now — MRS (Magnetic Resonance
Spectroscopy) scan. Today, we will still do a series of it. That one is
(a total of) about N80,000.

“I don’t keep track of all those
costs because they are my children; I don’t expect anyone to pay me
back. I really cannot recall the test I spent highest for.

Mary aalso said that though the nurses in the hospital are kind
to her twins, she has been stigmatised by some hospital staff and
neighbours.

“Because of illiteracy or not being exposed, some
think that whenever anything (strange) happens, it is somebody that is
behind it.

“Some female workers that clean the hospital asked,
‘Why are you disturbing yourself?’ They told me to leave the kids and
run away. But I can never leave them and run away because they are my
blood.”

“The neighbours living in my compound are fine; they
understand because they are learned. But on the streets, some people
that heard I had conjoined twins stopped greeting me. Some wouldn’t even
talk to me; some that used to come and collect things from me before
now talk about me in jest. They laugh. But God will take all the glory.”

Mary further expressed apprehension about the urgency of the situation of the children.
According to her, she has been trying to reach out to a woman, who had conjoined twins in 2007.

“I
am looking for how to get in touch with the woman so I can find out a
lot of things. I don’t understand what the doctors are doing. I am
worried that they may be experimenting with my kids,” she said.

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