As sent in by a kfber
I have two kids for my Husby, we got married in 201. I was 22 years and
he lied that he was 32 meanwhile he was 39. We did introduction and engagement, we were supposed to have go to the registry, which never
happened, he claimed that I wanted to tie him down, after I had my 1st
son, he never contributed to anything in d house wen I complain, i get
beaten at times he would tie me up like an animal with his belts , tie
my two hands and legs.
I wanted to leave then in 2013, but my family and
friends said I should endure, and I should also consider wat people
would say. His family hated me so much for reasons I don’t know, I am a
christian and he is a Muslim, i got pregnant for my 2nd child, I beg
him to even have sex wit me, we could stay for months without any
contact , I had to calculate my ovulation to beg him for sex, when he
noticed I got pregnant, he beats me at every slightest opportunity. His
family never wanted to see me, immediately I put to bed,he didn’t pay
for my bills, my mum came over and paid, his excuse was dat he was
punishing me for what I don’t know.
After my baby was 1yr, he started
acting all nice and good, i was wondering if he had turned a new leaf
but we never slept in d same room. Then I started having nightmares that
people were looking for me, he called me one day at work, cos he works
in a bank that I shouldn’t look 4 him, that I should take care of d
kids, I called his family to tell them what he said,they didn’t sound surprised at what I said, after 3 days.on a Sunday morning someone was
knocking the door at 6 am, I was wondering maybe he was the one, then I
found out that police had surrounded the whole compound, they arrested
me and the kids that my husband defrauded the bank. I wasn’t working at
that time because he had told my former employer to please sack me
because he wants me to face my family.on the day of the arrest I called
his family and told them I have been arrested, they never came and never
called me, my mum bailed me and the kids.
On getting home I found out
that he had used a ladder to climb into our flat at the last floor of 3
storey building, he packed his cloths and documents and his car
away.after few weeks he called me that all his account has been blocked
that he needed money to come back home, that he would send sumone to me
when I get to my mums shop.little did I know that he wanted to monitor
me out of the house, he came to the house after I had left packed his
remaining cloths.
I knew sumone entered the house immediately I got
back. I asked the security in the house, he said my hubby came to the
house.i had to throw all the food I had away cos I don’t know Wat was on
his mind. I still stayed in the house, for 2 months .Our rent was due
at that time and our last rent was paid by my step dad. One fateful day I
decided to enter his room, i was looking for something then I opened
his second wardrobe and found some fetish things with my name on it.i
called pastors and they prayed for days and I was told that he wanted to
do money ritual, but because of watt has happened in his office, he
couldn’t complete it on time.
That was the day I left his house with my
things to my mums house. i was in my mums house for a month, when my step
dad woke up at 11pm and told he didn’t want to see me in his house, and
threw my things out of his house, i slept outside with the 2kids that
night, thinking I would have no choice than to go back to my hubby.i had
no where to go.my uncle invited me to come and stay at his place for
sometime in ajao estate, on that same day I got a job.i have to drop d
kids at skool in ilasamaja from ajao estate and start going to work.i
spend too much on transportation and staying with my uncle and his
family is not really convenient. Help.