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This trend of pregnancy before marriage is starting to get out of hand!!!

Actor and model IK Ogbonna is set to join the list of celebrity dads – he is expecting a child with his Columbian  girlfriend, Sonia Moralez.

Sonia is believed to be in her second trimester – six months pregnant
– she is presently in Nigeria with her man.

The Nigerian actor is excited about the pregnancy and says he can’t wait to
have a new baby.

‘It’s a special moment for me, I’m going to be a father, the
feeling is just great’ he says..aww, how sweet….but come on!


Almost our Nigerian celebrities had kids before formalizing their union and it’s not very nice…if you ask us, it’s more like disrespecting the lady they claim to love.

Why wait till she got pregnant and have your kid before deeming her worthy to be your wifey?

Now you don’t need us to list their names, do you? What legacy are you leaving behind for fans looking up to you?

To make matters worse, in every neighbor hood today, there is someone that knows at-least that someone that got pregnant before marriage.

And it is even more rampant in the
Christendom – those who claim to read the Bible!

Ist Corinthians 7: 1 – 40 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not
to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual
immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife
to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the
husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body,
but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for
a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control. …

1 Corinthians 7: 36

If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if
his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them
marry—it is no sin.
 
Ephesians 5: 3, 1 Corinthians 6: 18
– 20, 1 Thessalonians 4: 3-5, Exodus 21: 22 – 25 , 1 Corinthians 6: 18 etc.

We are not trying to judge anyone, no one is perfect but we should put a stop to
this trend of becoming a baby mama first before marriage, you are special than
that! You don’t need to prove to any man that you are fertile (thus getting pregnant before marriage), and you don’t need to safeguard yourself or tie down a man by getting pregnant…do the right thing!

So yes, if you are having sex before
marriage, you are going against what the Lord has designed sex to be for. But
all of that is redeemable.
Please desist from it. God wants His best for you
and He wants you to come away from that lifestyle because He has something
much better in store for you.
And please we are not condemning you
if you are already pregnant.
 
“Children are a heritage from the
LORD, offspring a reward from him”
(Psalm 127:3).

 Pregnancy
is a time of rejoicing, not mourning. If a single female tells you that she is
pregnant, congratulate her and tell her you’re happy for her. Right now she
needs the encouragement and support of anyone she comes in contact with. Spark
dialogue and ask how things have been going and how you can help. 


We only want ladies to begin to appreciate their self worth 🙂
Bottom line: Take a deep breath,
take some time to think, and make the right decision….respect you!
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