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#SoulTies How to recover from a nasty breakup

For the newbies, “Breaking Soul Ties” – is a weekly column by Olusola Adio – dedicated to help you understand
what #SoulTies are and how to break them with the power of God’s Word
and the power of the Holy Spirit.
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Today, we are looking at how to
recover from a nasty break-up or a failed relationship and bounce back.

We start by examining our commitment to God and our salvation status
before looking at the importance of forgiveness and the elimination of a
bitter spirit. 

 I want to state that we are not here to condemn anyone or  stigmatize anyone who has repeatedly fallen
into sin due to #SoulTies.

We are here to expose #SoulTies as the
works of the enemy that the blood of Jesus has been shed to purge us from.

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We are also not here to
provide excuses and reasons for Christians to continue in sin due to a
misunderstanding of grace. #SoulTies
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The Bible states clearly
in Romans 6:23 that the wages of sin is death #SoulTies is no excuse for us to
continue in sin
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We are here to work out
our salvation (that Jesus already paid with His blood) from #SoulTies according
to God’s word.
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Today we are attempting
to answer a question, in the context of #SoulTies, which is how to recover from
a nasty breakup.
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Due to time constraints,
I assume that it’s
now accepted that d breakup is for real & u’re not coming back together again.
#SoulTies
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U r still dazed &
your inner circle has come to comfort you with d words on this pic. #SoulTies
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I saw this happen many
times when I was in UNI and this literally sapped life out of vibrant ladies on
campus overnight. #SoulTies
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I saw this happen to both
Christians and non-Christians in UNI so it wasn’t an experience that was localised to
1 group. #SoulTies
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I also personally
experienced this both on the emotional and spiritual sides. So I am sharing
practical stuff here. #SoulTies
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I will be sharing stuff
from the bible, the Word of God. It’s the most resourceful repository of wisdom I know of.
#SoulTies
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When this breakup
happens, we still hold on to thoughts and fantasies of what could have been if
breakup didn’t happen. #SoulTies
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Ladies are hit more badly
here cos they put more heart, life and hope into their relationships than men.
#SoulTies
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They would do all they
can to prevent their relationships from falling off d cliff. #SoulTies
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It’s a time where you are torn apart on
your insides wondering where you went wrong. #SoulTies
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You feel humiliated cos
you had told us this was it and changed your relationship status to engaged.
Now oops! #SoulTies
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You made him the face of
your laptop screensaver and your phone lock screen but oops! #SoulTies
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To think it felt so good
at the beginning and now its all turned to pain and anguish. #SoulTies
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After a breakup, there is
a vey toxic mix of emotions welling up in u; despair, revenge, confusion,
anger, hurt, loss etc #SoulTies
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Then your inner circle
turns up to give you all sorts of counsel just like they did to Job. #SoulTies
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Some say try crying and
you have cried, no improvement. Some say go on holiday, go eating, etc None
does d job. #SoulTies
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In the process, you even
resort to sentimental music with lyrics written by those who went through the
same. #SoulTies
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Then it becomes a
perpetual wound that u show to everyone who turns up to attract empathy &
an arm round your shoulder. #SoulTies
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Now let’s start #SoulTies 10 here by looking
at the God factor first and then on to the required human steps. #SoulTies
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In all we have said so
far, very little mention has been made of God. It’s been all about ourselves who got
injured. #SoulTies
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Please follow this link
to read the complete article.https://breakingsoulties.wordpress.com/2013/11/25/1117/ 
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Why I think Rashidi Yekini was murdered – Segun Odegbami
Conclusion
Please follow the link below to read the complete post on
recovering from a nasty breakup. Looking forward to seeing you again next week.
Please share this post with all your friends. https://breakingsoulties.wordpress.com/2013/11/25/1117/  
Announcement
I have a new recording titled “Can a condom stop
#SoulTies?”. You can listen to it here. —> 
https://breakingsoulties.wordpress.com/2014/08/14/can-a-condom-stop-soulties/ 
On this clip, I answer a question asked on Twitter whether the use of a
condom can stop the flow of #SoulTies between a man and a woman who are in a
sexual relationship. Every man should download this gist.
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5 Comments

  1. Thankyou Mr. Adio. I needed this. Been trying hard to get over a nasty breakup for weeks now. It hurts even more cos he left me few days after i let him fully into my soul and body, believeing we were meant to be. He deceived for me eight months and left after having a taste of what he wanted. I was crushed but this article has helped me. I have prayed as directed and i hope with time this deep big wound will heal.

  2. This is my ist time reading any of the soul ties posts and it got my attention till the very end. Thanks for sharing it, a part of me has been healed.

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