Happily married father of one, Yemi Sax, recently ,opened up on the
relationship before he met his wife.
school and dating for 8 years, she left him and that has taught him not
to put his trust in man but God. Read his story below:
“Of course I have had a long relationship of like eight years that
didn’t even work out. You know after eight years I was heartbroken. A
woman I gave my all to decided to mess the privilege and brought my heart to great sorrow. It is not about being a star really, my wife that I married right now had sworn with her life that she world never marry
an entertainer but man proposes and God disposes, even she knew that it
is by the grace of God that it all happened. Our ways at times are not
His ways. It is what God wants because she is a Corporate person, she is
in the corporate world. So, she doesn’t even have the time to go out
and start dating an entertainer but God called me her husband and she my
wife. I give all thanks to God for His benevolence.”
On if she left because she was more educated than him…He said
I think at first, everything was rosy but you know you can’t pretend for
long. She was just there pretending I think it was because of the
things she was gaining from me and you know you can’t pretend for long
because character is like a flame it will always come out eventually.
So, it got to a time that her real personality manifested and that was
when the relationship came to an end.
So, you didn’t think it was as a result of personality and educational difference?
Nooo, not at all; she is even somebody I brought up. She is somebody I brushed
up, I sent her to school. So, it is not about being more educated than
me or not, you understand what I mean. I did everything to make her a
success but she chose otherwise.
So, what did that episode teach you about life?
I think it is a great lesson; I will advise people not to expect too
much from a fellow human. That is the way you can live long, that is the
way you can enjoy life; expect the worst from others. So, that is my
advice to people. It is my guiding philosophy as well. I don’t think it
is a good thing to put your trust in people. Instead, put your trust in
God who never disappoints.