For those of you that do not understand this ‘triangular love story’, here you go:
So there’s the movie producer/director Tchidi Chikere who is supposed to be married to the mother of his three sons, Sophia but he quits his marriage and goes after actress Nuella Njigbo.
After denying and cussing bloggers for saying she’s dating Tchidi, Nuella released a press statement via her rep Big Sam Media, yesterday, stating that she’s actually getting married this weekend in Anambra!
According to the release, she is following her heart and doesn’t feel guilty getting married to Tchidi.
“This was not the way we imagined or planned it, but as they say, nobody
has a crystal ball to tell where or who we end up with. Life is a dice. At the time the rumours of his separation/divorce and me being
involved was going on, I definitely was not in that space where some
story writers said I was. I was busy doing other things with my life,
other preoccupations, a relationship (I thought would lead to marriage),
and my acting career. Things happened, my relationship packed up and we
went our separate ways, I moved on.
Tchidi and I have always been friends (As I am with other
colleagues), We trade in the same career, but we never crossed that line
(we never dated), not to talk of me getting pregnant for him ( I’m
presently not pregnant as still being written) sometimes, It’s really
tiring confirming or refuting some of these rumors.
In the past two years, Tchidi and I worked more, we got closer and
more friendly, we were both single and I began to understand and see the
real him. Needless to say that I also began to really, really like this
real person I was getting to know more and more with every passing day.
Then it happened, our hearts clicked. Well, maybe the flying rumours
contributed to this and made me look more his way, or it could have been
part of life we have no control over.
Suffice this to say, he proposed to me a while ago and after very
careful thought and consideration on every side, I said yes. Would I say
no because of what people would say and damn where my heart led me?
Just like Bill Cosby said, ‘the key to failure is trying to please
everybody’. I chose not to take that route, instead follow my heart.
My heart is remarkably at peace with this decision, and I am willing to
take this leap of faith which every married woman has taken. Where this
love will lead me, I cannot say, I am not God, but, I have hope, faith
and believe that it will lead me to a good place. Every one of us in
this life deserves a chance to be happy. I am taking my own chance.” she wrote
Anyway, barely
12 hours after Actress Nuella Njubigbo released her press statement, the estranged wife of the Director, Sophia Chikere has released another press statement.
dating the movie Director after his marriage to Sophia packed up. “
however, Sophia has rebuffed the claim.
“It is a blatant lie! Nuella started dating Chidi long before our
marriage ended. She is the reason why my marriage ended. I swear with my
life, my children’s life and everything I have that Nuella started
dating my husband before he left the marriage. But because I respect my
husband a lot, the father of my three boys, I have kept calm and won’t
talk and comment because there is no need to wash your dirty linen in
public. Tchidi is a wonderful husband and father and will always be.”
she stated.
“This question is for Nuella. Nuella since you broke my marriage,
have I called you? Have I looked for you? No! After what you did, you
still have the right to lie and say you were not in the picture? You
want to deceive the public? But you can’t deceive God. You put what God
has joined together, asunder and made my children cry to bed every
night.
I keep calm and you have the audacity to say that you weren’t dating
my husband when we were together? Let the wrath of God be your portion.
Now that you have taken my hubby and you are getting married to him like
I heard, are you happy? Are you fulfilled? Let the Almighty God fight
for me and judge you.
Let vengeance be of God who knows everything and sees everything. My
God is able and he’s not asleep. He sees. He knows. And he feels what I
feel. He is the Lord who cares for me and my kids.
disrespect him” the estranged wife wrote in her press statement.