Written by Chinedu Hardy Nwadike
in this way, but an article I was writing motivated this title and I
had to give it heart and time to see that the world reads this truth no
one has ever bothered to tell.
for the title, but you are just the opposite of a perfect example for
what the entire article will revolve around, because if a lady had been
wielding your name with every achievements you have, I believe she would
still be single and probably searching for a worthy candidate to warm
her bed with the title of about seventh husband.
were unserious until I analyzed certain conditions they are usually
faced with. A female entertainer should need about thrice the courage
her male counterpart would summon before taking a step into the
industry, because of the usual societal attachments to being a female
is to get married in a home that will stand the taste of time; have
beautiful kids that will make her proud whenever she stands with other
women. A friend of mine once argued that evens nuns often dream of this.
the wedding day of a woman is often one of the days she will never
forget in her entire life. No matter how old they are, they can tell the
story of how their husband proposed as well as how every arrangement
was made until it ended at the wedding day. No wonder when you fail to
attend the wedding of a lady, you become her enemy forever or many
entertainers live wayward lives and I believe this comparison has been
drawn from their male counterparts who are often celebrated for their
we read them and see that in most cases, the number of negative
comments we see are very few, unlike when the camera picked Tiwa Savage
from under, Nigerians nailed her. Who nailed Psquare when one of them
poured juice into his trouser while on stage, we tagged it sexy act.
Funny country in a funny continent.
of male artistes to their female counterparts to about 10:1, because the
margin is bigger than that and daily we watch it increase because the
ladies have not received the respect they ought to get from us. The few
that summoned the courage to remain in the industry have either looked
for controversies to attract reasonable attention from the media.
industry carefully, would they let their daughter join the industry just
like that? Would they be prepared to see their daughter cover the pages
of magazines for a scandal that was actually cooked up for media
their nights in hotel rooms after performances or appearances in events
and what do we call ladies who live that kind of life in an average
African setting. Wayward!!
with the worst being the regular tagging of ‘single mother’ to their
names. The knowledge that one’s brother wants to marry a single mother
causes commotion in a family, but when a rich ‘single father’ (if that
title has ever been used) comes around, no question is asked, he is
tagged one ‘active’ young man.
been a lady with six kids out of wedlock? He would have been tagged
‘baby factory’, yet governors stormed his wedding with gifts, something
that has never been done for the ladies.
as well as others we have previously tagged single mothers waxing
strong in the industry, but will the societal stigmatization let them
experience the ‘greatest joy of womanhood’?
new guy that comes around that they are single mothers. Did anyone tell
Paul of Psquare that posting beautiful pictures of him and his baby
mama’s engagement or proposal acceptance is not news because if she
doesn’t say yes to a rich guy whom she already has a child for, would
she be saying yes to me?
is also writing this article, we always cover ourselves, but what is
the future of a young girl who has the talent and passion to join one
genre of the industry or another.
multiply her courage by three? Can she get about double that courage to
remain in an industry where men would still want to take advantage of
her and tag a whore if she eventually yields to their tricks?
looked for another talent in them to make it in life, leaving in some
cases, a bunch of fame seeking talentless people on the scene.
and other single fathers at one point or another were ladies, they
would still be in the same agony and probably single till date.
don’t just take advantage of her. The lights of certain stars are fading
because we have polished an unfair ground for them to trade.
Nwadike, writes from Owerri, Imo State, [email protected] 08136723796, @hardynwa
The controversial Yoruba movie star, Mercy Aigbe, is back in Nigeria after delivering her baby abroad a few months ago. She was a year older yesterday so she threw
herself a birthday at Mercy Aigbe and hubby co-owned hotel, Laveronique.
alongside Mercy Aigbe’s hubby, who was also a year older yesterday,
October 7, 2013. (Read Mercy Aigbe's romantic message to her husband HERE)
The celebration was graced by popular faces in the yoruba movie industry, the likes of Iyabo Ojo, Yomi Fabuyi, Mercy Aigbe and
hubby, Lanre Gentry, Lizzy Anjorin, Lola Margaret, Princess Lanko,
Liz Da Silva etc. See more photos below:
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Nike Oshinowo speaks on the birth of her surrogate twins, her painful sex life and battle with Endometriosis
It is no longer news that former Miss Nigeria, Chief Adenike Oshinowo, is a proud mother of a set of twins.
Due to her long-term association with endometriosis, 47 year old Nike delivered the set of twins with the help of a surrogate
gestational carrier in United States of America.
Medical experts identify endometriosis as a significant factor in unexplained female infertility, chronic pelvic pain, and other gynaecological problems.
Expressing happiness and gratitude to the Almighty for making her a
mother despite all odds, Nike said
“I am overwhelmed and humbled by the depth of my love for my children. God has been most gracious to me. I am beyond happy.”
Addressing her battle with Endometriosis, Nike said "I have lived with endometriosis since the age of
13. I was sent to boarding school in England when I was seven. I went
the incident in Bauchi, yesterday at Vice
Chairman, Bauchi State Amirul Hajj team, Alhaji Yahaya Miya, said: “When we
received the information, we investigated the incident and confirmed
that one of our pilgrims called Adama Habibu, from Gamawa Local
Government Area, fell from 11th floor of a building and died in Saudi
Assembly, said Bauchi State Government and the Hajj team had condoled
with the family of the deceased and assured that all Bauchi State
pilgrims were in good condition.