You
are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your friends are
married;
are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your friends are
married;
including
that ugly, short and fat Jane! Yet you think you are a good wife
material,
that ugly, short and fat Jane! Yet you think you are a good wife
material,
but
you are still single and getting really worried. Well maybe guys are not
looking your way
you are still single and getting really worried. Well maybe guys are not
looking your way
because
you are guilty of a number of these offences:
you are guilty of a number of these offences:
- You are too haughty. You are the “independent” type that acts as if
you don’t give a damn about guys. Your oversized ego has beclouded your
reason for so long to make you think you don’t need men and you can do
well alone all by yourself. Typically, you will quickly size up the guy
and bring him down with intimidating looks and sarcastic responses. - You are looking for Mr. Perfect. You want a well-built, neat, romantic,
hardworking, honest, God-fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome
gentleman man from a good background who has a good job, drive a good car
and loves you unconditionally. I’m afraid that perfect guy you read about
in a romantic novel isn’t real. He only exists in the writer’s imagination
– and yours. You’ll never find a perfect guy –
anywhere. Just like you, everyone else is imperfect. Accept that fact or
wait for the guy to emerge from the book and marry you. - You smell desperate. Men have a special ability to smell desperation
in a woman. Unfortunately, we find that odor very offensive and avoid it
like a plague. Now your parents and friends are asking you frustrating
questions about marriage, and you are so sick of those questions so you’d
do anything to get the next available guy to marry you. You need a man so
badly and justifiably so. Unfortunately for you, the more desperate you
are, the less attractive men find you. - You pay too little attention to your
appearance. You
don’t want to look like a bitch. So you always dress down, you don’t wear
make ups and you are always unkempt. You are just pathetic. Even
stunningly looking ladies are still in the husband-haunting market; and
you really think a guy will leave all the attractive women and come for
you because he’s “good guy”? - You pay too much attention to your
appearance. The
fact that men are visually stimulated doesn’t mean they are unreasonable.
Some men may make awkward choice of a sex partner, but when it comes to a
life partner, men are painstakingly selective. Every man dreams of
marrying a decent lady, not some bitch who won’t mind going naked on the
street to get cheap attention. - You are rather too sexually naïve. Each time he talks about sex, you act like he
has just committed a crime, because you are a virgin or you don’t want to
appear promiscuous. When you do that you only make him wonder how boring
or frigid you are in bed.Normalmen like sex. And whether you
want to agree to it or not, if he doesn’t have a hint that you can
satisfy him sexually(either practically or by insinuations), he’s put off
(most of the time) subconsciously. That’s when men say things like
“there’s no chemistry”, “I don’t feel her” or “we don’t connect”. In other
words, your insensitivity to his libido repels him. - You are too boring. If you could choose between two guys with equal
qualities in all ramifications except that one is boring and another is
interesting, which of them will you rather pick? The interesting one of course!
So why do you think if he has to make a similar choice, he’ll prefer the
boring you to an interesting lady? You excuse yourself by saying “I’m the
quiet type”. Being an introvert is different from being boring. Men are
logical by nature and therefore they tend to be more futuristic species.
So, he’ll picture the two of you alone in your home. No one looks forward
to a boring home. Some ladies are uninteresting and uninterested. - You nag. This
is by far one of the most annoying behaviors a lady can exhibit. It is
alarming however how many women nag. All in the bid to get him do what she
wants, when she wants it and how she wants it, women typically become nags
to achieve their ends. This is rather selfish and insensitive. No matter
what you hope to achieve, nagging will never get you anywhere. And it
will drive men far away from you. - You are insecure. It is normal for women to need constant
reassurance. What is not cool however is for them is to make their guys’
lives impossible because of deep-rooted lack of self-confidence.
Insecurity is an awful but common issue amongst many women. No matter what
the guy does, it hits their weak point. If he looks there, he’s checking
out another girl. If he’s busy with work, he doesn’t love you. If forgets
an important date, he doesn’t care. If a lady calls him, he’s cheating.
You suspect his every action and inaction and react awfully even to
well-intended gestures. That way, you will drive every man in your life
away, and fast. - You are too
stubbornrigid. Being principled is an admirable thing, but
being unreasonably unbending is unattractive. All in the name of
being principled, you go around with a lousy air of sauciness and you want
a million guys to come asking you out? Your very long list of do’s and
don’ts that must be strictly adhered at all times in all condition is not
a plus but a minus. You are unbendable, unreachable and unteachable and
you actually pride yourself about it. Well, I got news for you; you are
going around with red beeping alert that says “keep off guys, I am a
robot!”
Culled from GideonBanks