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7 bad Habits that ruin ‘beautiful’ relationships

If you want to avoid major drama in your relationship, resist the seven
habits below that are known to ruin otherwise healthy relationships.

 Criticizing his/her family:
No matter how you feel about your boyfriend/girlfriend’s family, making it
known to him/her just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an
irreparable wedge into your relationship. So it’s best to hold your tongue when
the subject of his family comes up.
Spying: You may
think you’re doing yourself a favor by keeping up constant surveillance your
boyfriend/girlfriend’s blog, Facebook and Twitter habits; however by being
aware of the minutiae of his/her whereabouts and thoughts, you’re more likely
to do your relationship more
harm than good.
Fighting in Public:
It is natural for couples to have the occasional argument, especially after
being together for any significant amount of time; however, fights that become
so uncontrollable that they regularly spill out into the open, damage your
relationship!
Letting yourself go:
Not only is it bad for your health and overall well-being, but letting yourself
go — whether that means gaining weight or not caring about your appearance —
after settling into a relationship is one habit that sends a bad message to
your partner: if you stop caring about yourself, he may assume that you’ve
stopped caring about him too.
Trying to improve him:
Many women think they are helping the men that they’re with by trying to make
them over, however, by doing so; they only end up causing more problems for the
relationship.
Allowing problems to fester: Everyone would like to think that they have the perfect
relationship; however, if in your quest to avoid creating drama in your
relationship, you frequently allow things that upset you to go unsaid; you are
doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. Good communication is the
cornerstone of any happy, long-term coupling.
Lying: Lying to
your boyfriend/girlfriend for any reason does not bode well for a successful future
together. Just don’t do it!!


Tireni Adebayo

Tireni Adebayo is the Editor of Kemi Filani News. She has BSC in Mass Communication from the Redeemer's University and M.A in Mass Communication from the University of Lagos (2014 - 2015) where she majored in Public Relations and Advertising and Digital Media. ¬†When she is not writing, she is either listening to music or reading her favorite books. Tel: +2348000000901 Address: Herbert Macaulay, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria Email: [email protected]

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