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5 deadly sins of dating!!!

Thou shall not…
Don’t say that you weren’t warned! Nothing can kill a bubbling relationship faster than one of the five dating mistakes below.
 
 
1. Rushing into sex: 
There isn’t a universal right time to become intimate with a new
partner, however, if you have sex before a man has had a chance to get
to know you, then you risk him placing you in the “fling” category and
losing interest. A man has to invest and appreciate your other qualities
beyond the physical for him to want to make you his girlfriend. So
don’t be afraid to take your time and make him wait until it feels right
for you! *winks*

2. Opening up too fast:
It isn’t smart to rush in and tell him all of your sad
childhood stories. Although it’s natural to want to speed up the bonding
process, you have to pace the amount of information you share. You
don’t want to scare him offor convince him that you’re a
high-drama mamma.

3. Calling/texting/emailing too much:
While it’s true that we live in an age of over-sharing, you’ll just have
to play it cool. Men typically enjoy playing
the role of the chaser, not the chasee,
so constantly calling them can
have the reverse effect of making them less interested, not more. So put
down that phone, slowly back away from the computer, and let him sweat
it out for a change.

 4. Spying on him:
It may be tempting to take a quick peak at his Blackberry, but there’s no faster way to inflame trust issues than to snoop.
5.Neglecting yourself: While it’s important to nurture a budding relationship, sacrificing
all of your energy and time to it and ignoring your own needs is a huge
mistake. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, you should always love
and take care of yourself first.

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Tireni Adebayo

Tireni Adebayo is the Editor of Kemi Filani News.She has BSC in Mass Communication from the Redeemer's University and M.A in Mass Communication from the University of Lagos (2014 - 2015) where she majored in Public Relations and Advertising and Digital Media.  When she is not writing, she is either listening to music or reading her favorite books.Tel: +2348000000901 Address: Herbert Macaulay, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria Email: [email protected]

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